- Tytuł:
- The Activation and Restoration of Shame in an Intimate Relationship: A First-Hand Account of Self-Injury
- Autorzy:
- Gunnarsson, Nina Veetnisha
- Tematy:
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Self-Injury
Shame
Social Bonds
Critical Other
First-Person Account - Pokaż więcej
- Wydawca:
- Uniwersytet Łódzki. Wydawnictwo Uniwersytetu Łódzkiego
- Powiązania:
- https://bibliotekanauki.pl/articles/1024411.pdf Link otwiera się w nowym oknie
- Opis:
- This paper is grounded in a first-hand account of my own experiences with self-injury and shame. By using my personal diary entries as support for this account and a sociological framework of shame, I explore the process of shame and shame reactions in an intimate relationship. I illustrate how shame was activated by my internalized critical other, how the shame cycle de-stabilized my relationship, and, finally, how shame was restored through the other’s validation and acceptance, or how it led to more shame managed by self-injury. However, this account is not simply about self-analysis, or a need to indulge in my pain; rather, it is an inner dialogue that rests on the commitment to develop a richer understanding of the personal and interpersonal experiences of self-injury and shame. Today, I finally understand how shame works and this has helped me to not get caught up in my emotions. So, although shame may take a hold of me at times, I am no longer, like before, controlled by my shame.
- Dostawca treści:
- Biblioteka Nauki
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